I'm so sorry to hear this, james.dean420 I agree that perhaps your money would be better spent on trying therapy rather than webcams. That way you'll get the help you need and you'll also spend less time watching porn, hopefully. Also, I think maybe you do need to discuss this with your girlfriend. Even without mentioning the porn, you can still say that you have some problems with intimacy and sex. Maybe she will be able to help somehow. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you