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Originally Posted by feileacan
. . .Because if the person gives up on wanting and wishing anything because it is too painful to be or feel rejected then nothing can be met, the person cannot even accept those things that the T (or anyone else) can actually give.
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And what if the person, or an essential part of them, HAS given up? And disappeared. Or compartmentalized in a deep dungeon and the rest of the person, who put them in the dungeon or at least knew about it at some point, metaphorically threw away the key so they would never be tempted to open it again, and thus expose. . .who???. . .to the unbearable feelings and danger again? What then? How many years and different therapists are needed to reach them? What kind of therapy or method or understanding is there in therapy for them?