I'm so sorry you're struggling, NataleeRose It does sound like a very weird behavior. How is the relationship going apart from this? Do you get along well with him? I think you seriously need to discuss this with him and ask him why is he doing this, if you haven't already. Perhaps you can try couple counselling, although the only one who needs it is him, really. If if continues to be like this, I think you may want to reconsider this relationship, especially if it's hurting you so much. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this