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Old Jan 06, 2019, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Medusax View Post
Ok, here is my take on that. Why would you care if you have nothing to hide? My phone is literally all over the house. I tend to forget about it when I am at home because I have a house phone, and I converse on that. The cell is for brief use when I am out (Hey, I am at Walmart, can I get you anything?)and for text messages. I hate talking on it. I am FOREVER losing it. I don't care if my husband looks at it 5 times a day because there is nothing there that needs to be hidden.
It's not about just looking into the information in the phone itself at all. It's about the initial mistrust and suspicion. The "snooping" & digging around for information to catch them in a suspected lie. That is what brings problems into a relationship.