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I understand that your concern is with my not wanting him to think I would want to have sex. Because, in reality, what would be wrong with me wanting to have sex? Right?

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I think Kiya's concern is with a "woman's" idea that wanting to be held might be construed as a signal to a man that the woman wants sex. That's different from whether or not one wants to have sex. There's nothing wrong with you wanting to have sex but there is something "odd"/different about your thinking that being held will "trigger" something in a man and they might think you want sex. There appears a crossover between sensual (being held, being loved in a non-sexual way) and sexual (being loved in a sexual way). A male client and female T would have had a different conversation?