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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Yes, you are correct in that this girlfriend was too quick to give you a key to her place. From the little you have shared it sounds like this girl is still VERY naive and doesn't understand boundaries very well either.
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When you say girl, she is actually a grown woman at 39yrs of age! That makes the equation even more difficult to comprehend.
She has told me though that she hasn't had many relationships in the past (not that this gives her an excuse to cheat on me whether she has relationship experience or not.)
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
If she cheated on you it's important that you understand how that is really saying more about her than how deserving you are of having someone care about you and your feelings. Often a person who is naive like this tends to just love being loved and admired but still doesn't understand what it means to actually slowly develop a relationship that involves being able to actually understand the other person better.
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I don't quite understand what you mean by the part highlighted in bold? Do you mean that it could be because she has issues that she hasn't addressed?
She was never one to like to be the centre of attention and couldn't take compliments well (too modest).
I just think that the whole relationship didn't have a foundation and railed along at 100MPH.