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Originally Posted by golden_eve
She may not be able to fully appreciate anyone for that matter. I know for me, I tend to take things very personally, but just know it's not you, it's her. She's got some issues and those are entirely apart from you as a person.
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I feel that I gave and put more into the relationship than she did. It did at times feel quite one sided in that when I suggested doing activities etc. then she wouldn't always want to go to a place I suggested (there was no give and take.)
I do believe too that she has some issues, but she would be in denial about them if I asked her about them.
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Originally Posted by golden_eve
But yes, to your point, she didn't deserve you, and you deserve far better than that kind of treatment. Someone who cancels hotel plans last minute and who makes you eat the cost of it is extremely selfish and thoughtless. So is someone who plans on cheating. They are out to fulfill their own needs at the expense of others and don't stop themselves from committing hurtful actions because it's amoral and thoughtless. That is a very selfish person at heart.
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That's what all my friends keep saying is that I deserve better and I know that I do. I just loved and gave too much to her and didn't get the same equal balance back in return.
Her attitude to money too is that it grows on trees and I don't personally feel that she understands the value of it.
It all adds up now too because when I confronted her about her cheating text messages, she didn't even seem that remorseful or bothered by my findings which actually did surprise me.
She has shown herself to be a non trustworthy, selfish and downright horrible insensitive woman and one that I no longer want in my life.