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Originally Posted by Betty_Banana
Strange,for sure.Has your husband even explained his reasoning behind this?
I guess I may think a little different from others but my first thought was how sad.There has to be a story behind why he's doing this,something more going on besides him just being cruel and not wanting to share the dog with you.Like maybe he went through something in childhood that had to do with a dog and now as an adult he's determined he will have his own dog and nobody else is allowed to touch it.Or maybe he feels he needs this dog for love and to feel he has a purpose or something.
It doesn't sound like something worth throwing away a marriage over,it sounds like maybe he needs mental help.
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He says it's "mans best friend". the dog calms him. He has issues with calming down, he is super smart and his brain runs a mile a minute. It has been exhausting. He is my best friend....and outside of those super abnormal behavior, he is not abusive towards me. We have normal couple fights. He tends to run a bit jealous over others success, etc. However, we live a good life. The only issues that is unbearable is the dog. I have begged and pleaded that this change. His answer is that I get my own dog. I think that is absurd. I don't mind that the dog prefers him. Most dogs like one person more than the other...it is the game of keep away that drives me mad