I'm so sorry, Sisabel The situation with your daughter sounds very complicated. I'd try to talk to her about this and make her understand how important your relationship with her is for you. You've said you've already tried, maybe you can make another effort? If you don't want to, that's ok. Personally I think you're already doing your best by trying to be polite and spending some quality time with her. Perhaps just try to ignore her husband, and if you feel like you're spending too much, spend less. I don't think you have any obligation to give them everything they want. I hope you'll be able to spend some time with your grandchildren when it gets older. Please don't give up. I know it's hard, but I think you can still have a decent relationship with your daughter. And if you don't, remember that she has to work towards it as well, so it's also her responsability: it's not your fault if things don't work out like you planned. Sending many hugs to you