I'm so sorry you're struggling, MashedPotatoe His comments are really rude and uncalled for. I'm sorry you're being treated this way. Even though he's clearly struggling, he still has no right in deciding what you have to do, and you have every right at taking a break once in a while. I think you need to talk about this with him and see how it goes from there. Ask him why he doesn't like your friends and let him know that you're feeling hurt by this kind of behavior. After all, you're trying your best to support him. Is he supportive of you? I also think it would be useful for him to see a therapist. Maybe that could help. Remember that you can only do so much to help, but he's the one that has to do the work. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this