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Default Jan 07, 2019 at 02:07 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Echos Myron redux View Post
He was quiet after I challenged him, then I let him off the hook saying "I know you're just a person and I can't expect you to be totally consistent" and he just said "Well you can expect it, but you will probably be disappointed". I plan to put him back on the hook on Wednesday.

He referenced T1 and not wanting to repeat what he did, but he's missing the point because it was exactly the inconsistency, and moving between fuelling it and going cold that hurt me so much. T's actions aren't nearly on that scale but I need to get that across to him.
Just wanted to say I really respect and admire that you're self aware enough to reflect on this and how it affects you and that you're consciously standing up for yourself in bringing it up with him and making sure he acknowledges it, and doing so in a mature and articulate manner (though if you wanted to get angry and swear at him that would be understandable, I just don't know whether or not that would be your style)
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