Jan 07, 2019 at 02:12 PM
If you did not have and these feelings what would your life be like? Would it be dull and gray or full of color? When I finally let go of my T I realized I was using him and the feelings to give my life something other than the dullness and drudgery that it is. I am also married.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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