Hi Darkness,

Your friend is probably used to a chaotic environment. Some people get pleasure out of helping others (for example, his mother). He needs encouragement to reach out for help, and he needs to learn that psychological abuse can lead to physical violence (if it hasn't happened already). Domestic Violence and Abuse - HelpGuide.org explains about abuse. Does his dad drink too much or abuse drugs? If so, here is a good resource: Chapter 1—Effects of Domestic Violence on Substance Abuse Treatment - Substance Abuse Treatment and Domestic Violence - NCBI Bookshelf.


He might feel that he is unworthy of a better life as a result of all the psychological abuse from his dad. He might have a victim mentality. Maybe some of the materials will show him he is in danger, and then he will take action to look for another place to live. Both of you are in my thoughts.