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Originally Posted by NyaFire
I believe in this day and age it's called 'micro-cheating'. I'd go as far as to say it went beyond emotionally cheating in this scenario as well because she intended to go and have actual sex with him at some point down the line.
Don't feel bad for looking at her phone. People have been 'getting caught out' for centuries. It's the stereotypical response in this day and age, after being caught out, to go "Errmergerd you were looking at my phone?!" It's just her way of deflecting a part of her awful behaviour onto you.
Privacy and trust can only go so far in my opinion. And if she's giving you reason to feel mistrusting, then what did she expect. *shrugs*
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Wow. You are such a hypocrite, Nyafire. You literally cheated on me, met up with people from dating sites, sat next to me texting other men, blowing them kisses and meeting up with them on fetish sites. And then when I look over your shoulder to see what you're doing on your phone, you go on a rampage for days about how I don't respect your boundaries, even to the point of accusing me of having Aspergers and calling me a control freak. The only reason you are even on this site is because you and another man who you were cheating on me with, tracked me down here to troll me when I was looking for support about how to cope with the suffering you were putting me through. I can't believe you wrote this! This is not what you believe.