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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I swear MI can rear it's head during the course of the teen years. I say this because good parents can and do wind up with children with MI. I really hope as time goes on  some compassion enters the minds of those that like to say "eh...look at the parents, the parenting skills, is there a broken home, not a broken home, what traumas went on behind closed doors and on and on and on and on..." it can happen to any parent.
Be gentle with yourself  you're up against something that you probably didn't even cause...if that makes sense? |
Thank you. [emoji3590] I’m ok with admitting I made mistakes and I wasn’t perfect. There are definitely some issues I don’t understand though and likely never will. I wish I could just stop beating myself up and start being more direct and stop being a doormat. I know better and I know I can change this. In a positive way. I know it can be done in a positive way. I’ve spent a lot of time working on it and I’m managing it better than I used to but every now and then it really gets to me.