In my experience many women truly believe that it’s men’s job to take them on and fully support them one way or the other. They are just convinced that that’s how things need to be.

And I am not talking about somebody being even married to you or having kids with you and staying home with infants and relying on their spouse.

I am talking they expect it from all kind of random men, someone they just date or barely even know. Just because they are men. And it’s not necessarily have anything to do with having BPD or any other disorders (although it is somewhat prevalent in my experience), I have met women with no disorders and they still had that expectation.

I don’t know and don’t understand where this kind of mindset comes from but it’s unfortunately very common. I recommend staying away from such women. Her expectations of you and likely of all men is unrealistic and really skewed. Keep your distance please