The OP hasn’t been back to this thread. Since it’s been brought up amongst the community, she never said the dog is a service dog for him. From what I understand given what she wrote he got the dog without her and now won’t let her near the dog in any way. How is it that people are missing the cruelty of this situation? The OP has stated she has begged and pleaded with him. He knows how much this hurts and upsets her. To me, it’s obviously about him having full control and denying her something she wants whic is cruelty. No we cannot diagnose him as autistic but even so his behavior is unnaccepatable behavior. She is hurting immensely over it.