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Originally Posted by divine1966
She is 8 years older than you and you are saying she never had serious relationship? Is that what she told you? Really?
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That is what she told me when I asked her how many relationships she's actually had.
At nearly 40yrs of age, I was a bit alarmed by this revelation but not enough to dwell on it - everyone's different right.
Do you not believe her or think that it's odd that she's not had many relationships?
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Also how do you refer to this relationship as serious if she wasn’t even interested in spending time with you (after only few months of dating) plus wasn’t even exclusive with you. How much of what’s happening in your relationships with women is a reality and how much is your perception?
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I don't remember referring to our relationship as serious, but I'm not stupid and do believe that it was a one sided partnership what with me doing all the driving to see her (she has driven to mine a handful of times) throughout.
The vast majority of what has happened in my relationships are a reality with not any being my perception.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
This is at least 4th woman that you dated/were engaged to in short time of posting on here that was abusive/violent/unfaithful and all together just very unhealthy choice. Are you not alarmed by that?
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I am alarmed by that yes and slightly ashamed and embarrassed too.
When you meet someone and begin dating them, of course you don't see their flaws immediately, this always seems to be revealed over time and in my situation has been.