I think most of you know that my T is on medical leave (I haven't seen her since November 7, 2018.. She had some complications, so she spent more time in the hospital, but then they sent her home.
She offered text to me, as a way to "maintain the connection with me," but it soon became clear (to her, and sometime later, to me) that texting was only revving up my anxiety, and so, via text, told me that she could not text with me anymore. She directed me to listen to her outgoing voicemail, which would be updated at least weekly. Well, it's over a week, and the message hasn't changed. THAT is revving up my anxiety! So finally, I left a VM message, saying that I hoped she is okay.

Stay tuned.