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Originally Posted by Depressed-Fiance
That is what she told me when I asked her how many relationships she's actually had.
At nearly 40yrs of age, I was a bit alarmed by this revelation but not enough to dwell on it - everyone's different right.
Do you not believe her or think that it's odd that she's not had many relationships?
I don't remember referring to our relationship as serious, but I'm not stupid and do believe that it was a one sided partnership what with me doing all the driving to see her (she has driven to mine a handful of times) throughout.
The vast majority of what has happened in my relationships are a reality with not any being my perception.
I am alarmed by that yes and slightly ashamed and embarrassed too.
When you meet someone and begin dating them, of course you don't see their flaws immediately, this always seems to be revealed over time and in my situation has been.
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No I don’t believe her.
Of course you don’t see flaws immediately but if you pay attention you should see them soon enough. The trick is to NOT get intimately involved too soon. Get to know them well first. Develop friendship first. Usually true nature comes out fast. No need to date more than few dates and not more than few months to find out they are suitable partners. No one can fake it for too long