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Old Jan 08, 2019, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted by rechu View Post
Ugh, just need to vent. There is this woman that has been working in my department for the last months that I can't stand!!!

First of all, she will constantly write me to ask me really specific questions about something I updated 6 months ago, a year, or more, just because I was the last one to look at it. We deal with so many different projects, that it is very unlikely I am going to remember the specifics of something from that long ago. Wouldn't you agree? I tell her this, but she keeps doing it.

So, today she started in on this again. It was a new project write-up that I did ages ago. Then she started lecturing me about how I shouldn't have done the write-up in the first place, that it didn't fit our criteria. The value was low, but it was one segment of a larger project that did meet the criteria, so I did it. She just loves to act like she knows everything, In our meetings she is the same.

I remember at that time I did that write-up, my boss decided that a few of us could only write new projects 3 for months, which is much more time consuming and tiring than updates. I was one of the people that had to do that. On top of that, most of the projects on the list were kind of crappy things like that, so I didn't have much choice but to do them. I was going through some personal problems and my boss was on my case to get my production stats up, so I had to take those projects to get my stats up, still that woman keeps on insisting I shouldn't have done it.


Finally I sort of lost my patience and told her to leave me alone and not to judge since it was not my fault that I was stuck in that position. I guess she thinks I am mean now.

Thanks for listening, I just can't take it today!


That’s annoying. I’m so done with annoying co-workers. I would have blown her off too. I’ve gotten better at acting really busy and forgetting to follow up on low priority items. It’s passive aggressive.... but beats dealing with the nonsense. I’ve grown weary of people creating conflict when I was direct with them. I had a really bad situation with it... But when the situation warrants direct communication to back off... good for you!
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