So he told you to get a second dog when second dog is not even allowed on the property. Jeez. Great. What kind of marriage he thinks it is? First discussed to get a dog together then got one and now doesn’t allow his wife to touch it and then tells her to get her own dog when it’s not even allowed and people find all kind of excuses for this nonsense behavior. Trust me it won’t get better. Not good. You can do better