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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
I get process, though it's not my preferred one. I am not saying it is negative for you, just not something I want to do. My goal is to speak the words without dumping on anyone else. Goal. Not perfected process.
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OK....... I'm not sure why you're preaching.
Fortunately I don't have a T that holds any judgements nor critises anything I do in any given way.
The result being. I feel heard. By reaching out to her in the best way I could in the moment.
Perhaps give it a try?