no

to me, the being held has nothing to do with it. I just find it odd that in reply to the comment about being special Miss translating that to "i don't want you to think i want to have sex"), his comment would be "why wouldn't it be ok to want that.." it just (in my mind) takes it in a totally different direction.

it is just weird (and yet culturally accepted) for a woman to be concerned about the image, and for the man to *Not* be concerned.

there's something to that ... the need to be special gets tarnished with "having sex".... like "i can't be special because i don't want to be seen as wanting sex" ...see what i'm getting at? There's something important there. and with it he said "why don't you want to have sex with me? what's wrong with me?"

again - that's coming from my own lens... where special gets mixed up in something that doesn't need to be there.

thanks for letting me clarify. kiya

it gets to me. i'm still not sure that's really clear... and maybe i can't make it be any clearer.

regardless, i am really glad for you Miss that you got what you needed from the session - that rocks.