I understand being triggered by her response. Just highlights the indifference of therapists towards clients. Or at least makes it seem like that's the case. Probably was also hard to receive such a reply in response to what must be a stressful situation for you. Anyway, I wouldn't tell yourself you shouldn't feel the way you feel about this - and I'm not even of the opinion that all feelings are valid (but I do think yours are in this case).