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Default Jan 09, 2019 at 06:45 PM
 
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Originally Posted by skeksi View Post
I had two thoughts about this; one, that it was only one third session so it’s not surprising that you might be a bit reticent or reserved, and two, even if that’s how it was with your old T, too, doing things like making the mood tracker show your engagement with the process. Positive feelings may come in time—and I like the idea of adding positive associations.

More of the time in therapy I am dealing with fear, sadness, and anger but I actually have enormous positive feelings about the process and the T. The nature of our work just means those positive feelings don’t often come up in session.
I guess that I'm struggling because I felt a pretty quick "oh, I can see myself developing a good relationship with this guy" with my most recent T. And I did. I am not feeling that now, so while I'm engaged with the process, I don't know if I can have positive feelings with this T.

But I am a huge fan of therapy cheesecake. We should all have therapy desserts!
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