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Old Jan 10, 2019, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Jessica11 View Post
Read this quote about therapy and using an attentive listener rather than....
"How often do people hear an initial statement from a friend and then proceed to use this as a ‘prompt’ to manipulate the subject round to themselves and their own experience? Have you, the reader of this post, found this happening?"
I was nodding to this remembering certain interactions on this thread...
I admit i do this a lot with your posts. Thats because they often show me a new vista or a new perspective on my life. Then yes i record my thoughts on your thread, altho not to bring the conversation round to me, nor to influence your thoughts. And when i was still seeing my t last year, i would then castigate him for not being more like your t.

I dont yet have a new process in place for myself, but im still third-person processing your t where i find i can. Thanks for sharing!