Yes, he has found himself very over his head! He is overwhelmed with everything going on. He said its too much for him to handle. He is saying he doesn't want to lose me but isnt going to force me to stay either. He is going to get a paternity test done and i think he is looking into the one where you get it done pre-natal. Does anyone know anything about that?

This whole situation is just a huge mess. Honestly i am praying that the child isnt his. This may sound selfish, but im not sure i could overcome this. Being that that was supposed to be me having a child with him.