Hi, I'm new here so forgive me if I don't post right. About 1 1/2 yrs ago my husband started to do things sexually we haven't done in yrs. We've been married 31 yrs. The first was open-mouthed kissing with tongues involved and it went on from there. I've had my suspicions about an affair. His work would allow him to trick me about the time he is there or not. But what really scares me and makes me angry too is that he has started touching me inappropriately when he thinks I'm sleeping. I push his hand or hands away and ask him about it the nest AM most times and he either denies it or says he was just rubbing my butt. But his hands are under my underwear not on top. Or under my shirt. Why is he doing this? I don't deny him sex. Anyone out there with any help to my delimma? It makes me not want to have sex with him. My Dad sexually molested me for 2 yrs before I told on him and this sort of reminds me of that. Thanks for any help.