Wanting something up you know what does not make one gay. Lol

Now I think it’s quite simple to fix. Personally I think if you don’t want something, you shouldn’t do it. If he insists, might be time to say good bye. I’d not expect commited relationship from someone you texted for two years and occasionally had sex. And if a man is interested, 1.5 hours of drive would mean nothing. Casual sex is just that. You are either ok with it or you not, but I’d not expect more.

I also wouldn’t have unprotected sex wuth him and check for STDs periodically. Be safe