I don't quite know where to start but i've been in a relationship for 2 years with my girlfriend and she believes she is struggling with depression (no way to know for sure as she hasn't seen a professional, she is scared of it costing too much as we're both college students) and we have some problems with arguing a lot , and sometimes they can be intensive (like getting loud etc). I'm not sure exactly what to do but I really want help to make things work and get this figured out as, even through the negative things I genuinely think the relationship is worth it but it's obvious that that some things need to be worked on.