I'm so sorry, Lil Haunt Unfortunately, if she thinks she has depression, the only way to know for sure is to talk to a doctor and see how it goes from there. Does your university offer any counselling? Maybe that could help. Hopefully she will be able to see a professional somehow. I believe that's really important. As for what you can do, just try to be supportive of her as much as you can. But remember that you can only do so much to help, the final decision is up to her. You can't "save" her. Remember to take care of yourself as well. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you