My husband of 5 1/2 years, has left march 4th. We are having the same small issues since we got married. Never getting resolved, due to him not getting the point. And not talking. Short temper. I know we could work things out if he would get back on his meds but he refuses. So he left to "think". Cause it was to hard for him to think and being here. Says he will be back but sometimes not so sure. I know he is being immature about the whole thing. yet at the same time I know he is hurting. I have tried to be patent with his ADHD but hard to deal with it when I dont know what to do. I have 4 kids so trying to do what is best for the family. Please help I dont know what to do and cant take it anymore. He also refuses marriage counseling or therapy.