Not sure if this is the correct forum - but it does concern a relationship.. it's neighbor to neighbor relationship.

So, the question is .. how do you deal with a neighbor that accuses you of something you are not doing - and then denies accusing you? How it happened ... she came down (she is my upstairs neighbor) and knocked on my door, says she is still having the problem of someone turning off the light switch in the hallway (we live in an indoor apartment building)and outside - causing her and the other neighbor upstairs (Only 4 of us live in each building) to fall down the steps. Now, she also said she knows the other 2 nor her are doing it - which only leaves me. I have not been going out after dark since the landlady came over asking about if we (my husband and I) saw any strange person around becausr someone had gotten broke into a couple weeks ago. After I told her I had nothing to do with it, she went upstairs and started talking loudly to the other neighbor saying how she knows that we are the ones doing it, etc. So I came out and said we are not the ones doing it, and she started hollering at me and threatening to talk to the landlady and etc. I just wanted to get along with everyone. (Moved in 3 months ago) but it seems that isn't going to happen even though we mostly keep to ourselves.

Now she is upstairs making as much noise as she can trying to get our dogs to bark. How do you deal with a neighbor like that?