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Originally Posted by divine1966
You do not need to tell strangers where you are at (soup kitchen or strip bar-not their business). And why do you inform her that you don’t have enough food or what not. Less you talk to confrontational busy body neighbor, better it is. You are opening yourself for these discussions.
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As I have said - the landlady has said we must try to resolve it amongst ourselves. She was questioning why didn't we take our dogs with us - bc we were going somewhere dogs are not allowed and in this state it is illegal to leave them unattended in a car. Most places you can go and find ways of accommodating small dogs (we have chihuahuas) so she acted as if I was lying - so I laid it out for her. Please don't come at me as if this is my fault which you do by saying "you are opening yourself up to these discussions"- which comes across as "you bring this on yourself". I seriously doubt you would want others giving similar comments to you when you are stressed to a point of
. I say that in both a friendly but serious way. Thank you.