Hi Rhapsody, Thanks for you support and kindness as well. He is exhibiting so many new behaviors in the last 1 1/2 yrs I can't keep up with him. He pulls tricks on me as well,I guess to make me feel like I'm crazy just like in that old move "Gaslight". One of the other respondents said to get tipsy but I can't do that as I am an epileptic. He drinks though,just beer. But he goes through 2 -30 packs a week. Is that a lot because I've never been able to drink. Thanks again,Yiyii99