I'm just going to let the thread die now. She made her choice, time to make mine. She went on a trip for her job but before she did (day after we talked for an hour on the phone last week) she had a concert and invited people I work with but never invited me after the BS in October telling me she wants me to come to events she goes to. Once again she tells me things I wanna hear when she does not mean it. Definatly don't mean anything to her, so time to vanish instead of a slow fade. Ohwell, at least she is enjoying her dream job she told me she got because of me (unless that's a lie too lol).