Thank you all.
I dont understand how i make my mom more ill if im there because i spend all the time in my room and dont ask for anything. Well sometimes i like staying with her and i call her at the first floor, but my mom is not handicapped, and accordingly to my dad, who has worse problems ,she should stay still like a statue and stop living her life. Maybe hes afraid its whats going to happen to them boh and he takes it on me and it hurts me so much