I'm so sorry, Butterfly1971 I think it's weird he doesn't want to talk about feelings. I feel like that's a fundamental quality in any serious relationship. I think you need to evalute what are the pros and cons of this relationship. What makes you attracted to him? What kind of messages he sent to these other women? Maybe you do need to let some time pass before starting a new relationship. Try to think about that. Talk about this with your boyfriend if you can. Sending many hugs to you