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Originally Posted by toomanycats
DP - I'm really sorry you are going through this, and I so totally empathize, but this right here simply isn't true. You posted all the time about how you didn't believe he really cared - especially after things changed and he started putting boundaries in place.
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After that. Probably June. It took a long time to stop questioning it but it Is true. My texts would even prove that. He never really did change boundaries. Just the amount of time we texted was less. I chose to end email and everything else he said would change never did. I felt closer and more trusting of him after all that
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme
Is it possible he got in some kind of trouble over this specific relationship or his therapy boundaries, going out of the office etc? And he wanted to protect you from that? That is way left field but it popped in my mind.
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Doubtful. He admitted to not really feeling like this is the right career for him. This was his third t company in 5 yrs and said he never felt like it was right. Also he was very secretive about things. He deleted all our texts and my emails before people came to take his phone.
He used to secretly text me from places like the dr office or restaurant etc, even his car. Rarely did we text when he was actually working.
I forgot to include the 2 yr part. I don't want a romantic relationship with him or anyone. No desire for that. All I want in 2 yrs is to possibly meet and catch up. If we decide to be friends great or just catch up now and then great. If we part ways for good, at that time it will probably feel easier to do. Only time will tell. I doubt he will get married by then anyway though. He's a huge believer in friends for yrs first and he's got alot of issues to work on. Also yes I'm aware things can change in 2 yrs. I know its hopeless and that's what I hate. I want a bit of hope to keep me going.