I read the Five Love Languages and thought it was a great book. Hubby and I have completely different love languages. The good thing about a healthy relationship is that you’re both interested in each other’s love language because you want to make each other happy. I suggest you read the book and you will feel a lot better about this. No two people are going to be exactly alike and the more you learn to adapt and adjust in relationships, the healthier person you become... in my own opinion of course. I say give this nice guy a chance.