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Old Jan 14, 2019, 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
Can you find a less stressful part time job. Cut everything to the basics? can you get help with housing? food? electric? Do you have a bus system you can use instead of paying for gas, and car insurance and things like that? We have our basics and internet. We use a car instead of the bus cost us 210 a month so having a car is manageable. I would try to keep my savings. Can you try working again? What will change when you get your degree? will you be able to work then? why?
Thanks. I'm in Australia so things may be different here. There may be a few cuts I can make, like cancelling my contents insurance, but not very many. I am already in the cheapest housing I can get. The waiting list for cheaper housing is about 7-10 years and even then I must be at risk of losing my current residence (a flat I rent). I have a car but don't drive much so a full tank lasts me 3-4 weeks. The bus system to get to the main places I go is ridiculously long (like 2 or so hours each way). I live very frugally, my employment history from when I was high functioning was in credit management. However, when hypo/manic I lose control of my spending. T suggest I give my Mum Enduring Power of Attorney over my finances so she can cut the supply off when unwell. That scares me even though my mother is wonderful.

Another less stressful (on my body and mind) job is a good idea that I will have to look into. My past employment skills are generally for full-time positions or standing up customer service. I don't want to use my savings. My T isn't pressuring me either way. He was just stressing the seriousness of my situation and offering a suggestion. My Rhuematologist doesn't want me working till at least April but my employer won't wait that long. I just don't know what to do.
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