I think it's ok to tell friends you can't handle things sometimes. I don't see it as being selfish but rather as being self protective of your boundaries and your energy levels.
--splitimage
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"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.
"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba
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