Hello,

Perhaps you need to take her under your wing and explain - in a gentle manner - that she might not be being honest with herself. Because it sounds to me as if it's that which is troubling you about this person. And who knows, maybe the friendship could be rekindled again.

But yes, take her under your wing and explain that she's not being honest with herself. Then the dynamic may change between the two of you, one way or the other.