I'm so sorry, ann bog I'd suggest to talk to her and just tell her that you're not interested in a friendship at the moment. Maybe you can even explain the reason why, if you want. That's your decision, though. I don't think you have any obligation towards her. So I'd say just be honest with her, be tactful and tell her what you've already said here. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you