I'm so sorry, Erecura I feel like this is something you need to discuss with him. Even if he's not interested in moving abroad, that doesn't mean you should give up your dream. Would it be just a temporary thing or do you plan to stay abroad indefinitely? I think this is an important thing to address. You've already waited one year like you promised, now I think you have every right to go, whether he wants to follow you or not. Love requires some sacrifices, which you've already done by pushing the whole thing by a year. The question is whether he's willing to make those sacrifices or not. I feel like he needs to take some responsabilities. So I'd say definitely talk about this with him and see how it goes from there. Feel free to make your own decision. If he truly loves you, he will respect and support your dreams and your decisions. And if you do go abroad... Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. It's a very important and even pretty cool experience in my opinion. Sending many hugs to you