A big redbflag is people who always bang on aboutbthemselves, stuck in your face telling you how wonderful they are and spitting as they talk. i know someone like that. I just walked away from him last time. h elearned. Next time he said hi and kept going

My resolution is me first. i no longer give people ride in my car except for very close friend. i was very decent with my car. i saw how people did not care when i was ill. they can get a cab now .and they can find their own way world is full of free loaders.

Of course some people may become users due to their own problems. i wrote before about the woman using me pretending to be my friend , when she wanted to know if her boyfriend, whom i knew, was looking at other women. From her viewpoint /her low self esteem/ her fears this maybe OK. From mine it is being used. So i dropped her as a 'friend'. it is essentialy about survival and viewpoint . And now i am number one in my world. She can go to hell

I hope this does not put you off ennie. i sincerely wish you well in your efforts