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Originally Posted by ennie
I don't think there is any malice or ill-intention in his behavior although it may be super-annoying. It's hard to tell if someone means well but just "don't get it" about boundaries or is truly controlling.
But even if he means well, if it the friendship is too exhausting for you, it's okay to let him go, or at least take a break from him so you have time to reflect.
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I learnt to just be careful what i say. recently we went somewhere. he gave me money for fuel i did not expect as i was going anyway. That is what i mean by decent. Also i respect his wish to contribute. Contrast this with the mean guy in your other thread. Also i am sick today he said if you need anything call. he is OK really. But i really have to stop it quick. Someting new i am doing he said if you need help i have phone number of X who could help. i immediately said no i am OK and told him nicely not to mention my new plans to anyone. Thaks for your reply