True. I am easily swayed by emotions of the moment when someone cries to me. I help blindly because I feel "obligated" to help and end up imposing that feeling of obligation on someone else. But that's not fair to that person.

Separating emotions of the moment from rational reasoning is something I need to work on. The rational reasoning usually comes much later, when I start to obsess "Wait a minute, this is not adding up... and that and that too...."