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Originally Posted by Shattered007
Hello, it’s been awhile since I posted. Does anyone
else have difficulty getting their others to front in therapy?!?
My T gets emails from the system, as most are more
comfortable this way. Myself and one other have
been out. The rest feel safer with messaging. My
T thinks it would be best if they could talk one on
one. I haven’t a problem, but their not comfortable
they don’t feel safe. I’m sorry if this seems all over
the place. Any suggestions would be appreciated..
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I’m just like you or them....trust is earned and not issued on whim. I say give it time for trust to develop between your T and them....there is nothing that you can say of do, it’s a one on one basis per part. When they feel ready...they may front.....or not, It’s their choice....but all hope is not lost.....
I have parts that feel safer not fronting for no reason whatsoever except to stay away from the outside...I can’t fault them for that. But at their comfort level...they will decide what they want to do. You can give words of encouragement, but ultimately they will decide when most likely.